MEN'S CONSCIOUS PLAY
This event is a nude event. You MUST be on the guest list to get into this private party. Attendance is limited.
event is a gathering for fun,
socializing, and conscious sexuality. This event occurs on the second Sunday of each scheduled month. The event is a nude event. All participants will be nude at some point. It is not a spectator event. There will be a massage table set up for play, tumbling mats,
a play bench, sling, bed, and a full bath/shower. The event is about sharing
conscious erotic space with other men in a casual, relaxed atmosphere of support. Please be
aware that this is a GROUP event and as such pairing off for private play is
not what the event is about. It’s an event to share mindful play with
awareness and presence in a group environment.
To register for this event, please drop me a line at
I’ll add you to my email list so that you get invites sent directly to you each month. This list is
ONLY used for these type events and never sold or shared for any reason. To be added to the email list please include a face photo with your email. Once I receive your email and photo, I’ll reply with directions to
the event and info to help you prepare for the evening. No prepayment or
deposits are required. Entry is limited to the first 16 guys who sign up. Payment is due upon entry into the event.
open for the event at 4:30 and close again at 5 so please plan your arrival
accordingly. The activities will begin promptly at 5. No entries will be
permitted after the event begins but you are free to leave at any time. The
event is schedule to end at 8pm. The cost for the event is a sliding scale from 20 - 30 dollars.
You decide what you can pay in that range. If you have been before and bring a new man to the event (or if you are both new), you can both get in for a total of 30 bucks. Please plan to arrive together. Buddy up and save. Cash only please.
From 4:30 until 5, there will be a sexy underwear social so that participants can get to know each other a bit before the play begins. At 5 we’ll begin the event with an opening circle to get us all connected and fully in our bodies. In this circle,
I’ll share info on the event, share logistics of what is available within the
space and then let everyone speak their name into the circle as a way of
introduction and connection to the group. From there we’ll do some icebreaker exercises to help everyone release
the nerves and then allow that to take us into the free-form conscious play and
The event is about making conscious choices at your level of engagement and
allowing yourself to explore your group play fantasies. I
will be roaming around the space during the event to assist where needed and to
make sure everyone has what they need. If you have a special
request for what you’d like to have done to you at some point during the
evening, I'm happy to support you in that by creating safe space for you and helping you find partners if needed. Perhaps you
have always wanted to be blindfolded, restrained and to be fucked or
sucked by several men. I can help manage that for you and ensure that
your boundaries are not violated so that you can relax and enjoy the
experience. Generally speaking I will only be mildly engaging with the participants so
that I can manage the evening more effectively and help others in whatever way
I've created a locker room for you to put your belonging and clothing in. There are small lockers and locks available. You are welcome to bring your own lock as well.
All the play will happen in the main studio. This adds a certain intimacy to the experience despite the group nature. You'll see this for yourself when you attend. I provide lube, towels, regular sized non-lubricated condoms and nitrile gloves.
You are welcome to bring any personal items that you would like to make your
time more enjoyable. Cockrings, specialty lubes, special condoms, poppers,
dildo’s and cock toys which you may have are absolutely welcome and encouraged.
The more fun you have individually the more fun the collective group can have. Bring what makes you feel happy and sexy.
There will be complimentary snacks and non-alcoholic beverages available at each event. You are welcome to
bring a bottle of wine or beer with you to share with the group but no other
alcohol please. Also, this is a non-smoking event.
of all shapes, sizes and ages attend these events and seem to always feel
comfortable because we create community space and encourage openness with all
those present. Anyone who is disrupting the space, disrespecting others
boundaries or in any way causing trouble will be asked to leave and not return.
There is no room for attitude at these events because this is about creating
community and sharing in the brotherhood of men.
SUPPORT THE EVENT:
You are welcome and encouraged to
invite others to join us for the evening but they MUST BE on the guest list
beforehand as this is a private party. To geton the invite list for any event, please drop me a line at
I’ll get you added to our email list. This list is ONLY used for these invites and never sold or used for any other purpose. Invites for each event go out about 2 weeks before the event and only those whorespond and request to be on the guest list will be allowed in. The location of
the event is in the SoDo district in Seattle. You will be given specific instructions to get to the space when you sign up to attend an event.
When does this event occur?
This event occurs monthly on the second (2nd) Sunday of the scheduled month.
How many guys typically attend?
Based upon the size of the space, the entry limit is set at
16 guys. Typically in any of the summer months (when attendance is a
higher), we reach capacity and have a waiting list.
Do I have to be naked?
Yes. This is a sexual play party. Being in a space like this
with other naked guys is a way to release any of the body image issues that we
hold onto. Being the only person clothed in a room full of naked men defeats the purpose of attending. You are welcome to wear a t-shirt and socks if you'd like but this is a nudity-based play event.
What is the average age of attendees?
Generally speaking, the majority of guys who attend are typically between 45-55,
the next largest group would be 35-45, 55+ and then those below 35.
What is the average build of attendees?
As with the age, shape and size are in a range. The average attendee is what I think of as "average Joe". Like most of us in our 40's and 50's, we have a level of fitness but a bit of softness as well. All shapes and sizes are welcome. It's important to remember that this event is just for play and as such encouraging guys to let go of their
and just enjoy those who are present is part of the experience. You'll be amazed at how much more fun you have (here and in life) when you stop seeking only your type and can find the sexiness in any man. You are never required to erotically engage anyone.
Can I just come and watch?
No. This evening is for those who will engage at whatever
level they are comfortable but engagement is part of the experience. If
your personal limits, relationship boundaries or fears limit you from being
able to fully engage with the others present then this is not the event for
you. You may want to consider attending one of my lower intensity events instead.
What if I get an erection or have an orgasm?
I hope you will enjoy them both. Both of these are welcome experiences and a wonderful part
of the evening. This event is about creating a space where it is okay to be
sexy, to feel good, to connect with other men and create community. We come
together as men to celebrate all that makes us men and that includes erections.
Where is this event held?
The event is held in my private work/play space called The
Crow’s Nest Escape. It is located in the SoDo District. You'll be given directions the space when you sign up for an event.
Can I just show up if I've been before and know where it is?
No. Since there is nudity at this event it is therefore
considered a private party. You absolutely must be on the guest list to get in
especially since we have limited capacity even if you have attended an event in
Is this a “Safe Only” event?
No. Since this is an adult-only event, I have no desire to
enforce any type of activity. Condoms and gloves are provided and their use is
encouraged but not enforced. Since we are adults, each attendee is responsible
for expressing and monitoring their own boundaries and needs.
What about disease concerns?
I don’t monitor this at the group level nor do I exclude
guys who are HIV+/undetectable. Just like in the real world, you are
responsible for any risks that you take with anyone. If you are unsure, don’t
do it. Condoms and nitrile gloves are provided for you to protect yourself as
Can I bring beer or wine?
Certainly. Non-alcoholic beverages are available. No alcohol
is served by the host. No liquor is allowed in the event however. Also,
anyone appearing/smelling intoxicated will NOT be allowed in to the event.
Can I smoke pot, vape or consume edibles?
Certainly but just smoke/vape outside in the private courtyard. Please be aware of how you handle yourself in an altered state and use your good judgment. If you get out of control however you will be asked to leave.